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My day off November 20, 2009

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Good evening!

I’ve been off work today, which always is a blessing. I spent my day without doing much really. I stayed in bed until noon (aah),  I was reading and drifting in and out of sleep… got to love that! At the moment I’m reading a book called Girls of Riyadh. It’s a very nice and girl book, like some kind of arabic version of Gossip girl, but a book. Basically, it a girl who sends out an email every friday, revealing the secrets going on with four upper-class Saudi girls. How they try to look for love and enjoy life, at the same time as conforming to the traditions of their country. I wouldn’t say it’s interesting, eye-opening or even controversial. It’s just a girly book in a slightly different setting. And the setting creates certain complications… oh well. That’s not what I sat down t write about.

In the afternoon I went into town to run a few errands before meeting with the BF around 6-ish. It’s late night shopping on Thursdays, so we spent a really nice evening out. We even went to an Italian restaurant for some dinner. And after dinner we realised that Debenhams had some kind of even so they were open until midnight, so we went in there and shopped a bit as well. They had lots of great offers. Amongst them we found a pair of pillows for £8. I hope they’re gonna be nice because the pillows we have at the moment aren’t really the greatest – and sleeping well makes such a difference to the satisfaction of life! At least it does to me…

..oh God, this post is boring!

I used the bake machine!! I’ve told you that my parents got me a bread machine as a graduation gift? No? Yes? Anyway, they did! First I used it a couple of evenings ago with a simple bread mix, I figured that I’d start of with something simple… and it was! Oh am I happy or what?! I’ve hated the English bread for some 3 years now, and FINALLY!! I have an option to toast! My parents always tried to make sure I had breakfast while growing up, so having breakfast is pretty essential to me. But the longer I’ve stayed in this country, the more often have I skipped breakfast. I hate toast! It’s not bread! Why can’t they make bread that doesn’t have to be toasted? Surely, toast can be nice once in a while, but every day? Thank god for the bread maker!

So yesterday night I decided to be a bit more bold in my bread making, so I mixed my own ingredients and set the timer so I would get the bread when I woke up. I wasn’t entirely sure of how to mix the ingredients, but I figured I’d just have to try my way.

Woke up this morning around 9-ish from a beeping bread-machine. Stumbled out in the kitchen to turn it off. I vaguely remember taking the bread out of the machine and onto a tray. And then went back to bed. I thought the bread had turned out really bad, because it was only half the size as the last one. But I realised (a couple of hours later when I had woken up) that I only had half of the ingredients, and the bread was actually really nice. It’s a bit heavy, but OK. I’m happy. The bread maker can also make just dough, jam or cakes so I’m sure it’s gonna bring me lots of happiness in the future. All I need now is lots of seeds and flour :)

I’ve been promising pictures for quite some time now, so here’s a selection from the last couple of weeks…

Bread no. 1

Bread no. 2

“Assemblying” the mirror ;)

Graduating :)

I shall leave you and love you now :)

Good night

Memory lane September 29, 2009

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Ugh! I’m feeling ill. I don’t wanna be ill! I woke up this morning with an aching throat and it doesn’t get any better. I’m feeling tired and my nose is starting to play games on me. I knew this would happen. I was thinking about it at work both on Saturday and Sunday. The air con was full on, and I was standing close to the door all day, so I had cold air from outside and the air con on me. Dammit! I don’t want to… so I’ve taken appropriate measures: anti-flu medicine, scarf, drank warm milk with honey for breakfast and now I went out to by some Soothers and Ribena (black currant juice… my mum’s home made tip.. warm black currant juice, best thing ever for the throat… although my mum’s homemade is better).

I was supposed to apply for jobs, but I’m not sure I’ve got the energy for that now.. Hmm… we’ll see.

I’ve usually used my BF’s phone as a camera the last couple of weeks, so my own camera has been left in my suitcase. But now I had a look of it and I found a few pictures I took before I left Sweden. Whilst packing I found an envelop in a drawer. It’s not any random envelop because this one my friend I has drawn on. We used to live together my first year in Southampton and she really was a major part of that year. After that she moved to Nottingham to go to another university and we never kept that much in touch. It really makes me sad to think of ’cause we used to be so good friends. She was studying fashion and used to draw on anything as soon as she could (or at least it appeared so to me). We spent so many hours in our kitchen, she was drawing something and was talking. We used to discuss everything from boys and uni, to religion and politics. I really enjoyed these moments and she was a great person to talk to. We had lots of common, but then we had our differences as well. What was especially nice was that we could discuss these differences in a very respectful way. I often find it difficult to discuss religion with people because some people will become so offended when you don’t agree with them. But it wasn’t like that with her. She would listen and understand, but yet not change her own beliefs and she never tried to impose her beliefs onto me. I missed her a lot my last two years in Southampton as well, so missing her is nothing new. But still… I miss our talks, I! Anyway, one evening she drew me on an envelop and I found this envelop a couple of weeks ago.  To find things like these that you have cherished but forgotten, that is one of the best things in life!

Izabela's drawing

Uncle Y September 28, 2009

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My boyfriend is about to become an uncle, so we went shopping for the baby today. The first thing he found was an exact copy of what he was wearing himself, which I thought was really funny. I mean, look at the picture! That’s funny!

My “friday” night September 28, 2009

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My weekend has started! Yeah, yeah… I know it’s Sunday but I’ve got the next two days off so I feel like it’s Friday night. I’ve had a nice night in with my boyfriend, we have had chinese take away, watched TV and made lemon meringue cake. I made this cake once in Southampton with my friend E. I miss her a lot. Was thinking of all the great evenings we spent together and how lucky I was to have her nearby while I stayed there. My 3 years at uni would have been completely different if I hadn’t had her next to me… Makes me quite sad to think of those days. I always knew that my time in Soton was scarce so I tried to cherish my days there. I just can’t believe that 3 years passed so quickly.
Oh well, time for more cake… I miss u E!
xxx

My day September 19, 2009

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Update: BF found an ad for a flat, we’ve got a viewing tomorrow. He managed to make us the first to view the flat, so if we’re really lucky we might be able to get it. We’ll see tomorrow, at least it’s something :)

We went out for a walk and found a TV just 20 metres down the road :D might not be the greatest thing in history but at least, again, it’s something

We decided to go for a walk, down to the river and feed some birds. Alright, alright! It might not be the coolest thing ever, but what would you do if you had no money, no friends and you’ve already spent the last 17 days with your BF. There’s only so much you can do, right? Anyway, no need to justify myself! If I want to feed some birds, I’ll feed some birds! What’s my problem?

We fed the birds from a bridge, because I don’t like the big birds and they were kind of attacking us… not really… but the bridge seemed safer ;) As we were standing there some boys/men went into tiny canoes and… well… I don’t know what they were doing. The canoes very really small, too small to stretch out your legs and they seemed really unstable. It seemed like they were practising or something… What do you think they were doing?

New flat September 11, 2009

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Good evening!

We’ve moved to a new flat! It’s not anything permanent, just another short-let. I was feeling a bit nervous first, thinking that it might be worse than the one we were in before. The first night in our last place wasn’t that fun as the hose was cold, dirty and moldy. We only had a room with a bed, a chair and a table. We had 2 pillows but only a single duvet, so we have actually slept with full clothing on for a week. Not the nicest thing in the world. But I think we’ve tried to stay positive and managed quite well under the circumstances.  Obviously, we were both quite worried of what would come next.

But we didn’t need to worry. The place is F A N T A S T I C ! I can’t believe our luck with this place! It’s the same price as the last one, but it better than a hotel room! The only thing I could ever wish for is for us to be allowed toIMG_0934 rent it the whole year. Unfortunately I doubt it will happen as the owner comes in now and then to pick up clothes and stuff. He stays across the street with his partner, so even though they don’t officially live together, he spends most of his time there. So it seems like he rents the flat out now and then to get some extra cash in.

I also went to an interview today. When I arrived it turned out that the manager wanted me to do a trial shift, but as I was moving flats I didn’t have the time to. So, I’m going for the trial shift tomorrow. It’s not really ideal, party because it’s my BF’s birthday, and IMG_0933partly because it’s unpaid. I think it’s kind of common to work an unpaid trial shift here, but it’s also an indication of the salary *sigh* I’m not sure if I should go or not. Thinking of working there for a week, so I get some retail experience and then will be in a better position to negotiate in the future. It seems a lot though – finding a flat, finding a job AND working at the same time. I really don’t know what to do with it… :s

Babyface September 10, 2009

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My BF has a funny application on his iPhone that makes you put your own (oe somebody else’s) face into a picture. Check out one I made :) I kinda looked like that as a baby, but without the wings ;) haha

Oxford, day 3 September 4, 2009

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My third day in Oxford is coming to an end. I arrived on Wednesday evening and we didn’t do much that day. Just stayed at the hotel and made plans for the flat-hunting. We had our first viewing on Thursday morning so we woke up early to start looking. We went on 4 viewings yesterday, 1 today and we’ve got 2 tomorrow. It’s tiring! We’ve only seen one really, really good one so far but that one was way out of town, which would be a hassle. Apart from that we saw one decent one yesterday and another decent one today. But it’s always something, either it’s too small, too expensive, too far out of town, or worse case – too moldy! I don’t understand why so many flats are so moldy here! It’s not only in Oxford, it was the same in Southampton and I think it’s a general problem in UK. Very, very strange.

We’re renting a room in a flat-share at the moment. The price is good so it’s great to live like this rather than hotels. Hotels quickly get very expensive and this way we can keep our costs down. But it’s gross! The room is terribly cold, the smell of mold hits you when you walk throuIMG_0863gh the door, a window is broken in the kitchen so the kitchen is really cold, and even though we have a double bed, the duvet is a single one so we have to fight about it all night. Yes, I’m complaining. I really shouldn’t, it will all be fine in a couple of days.

The good thing about going on loads of viewings is that you get a good feel for the city. The bad thing is that as we’re not doing anything else, we’ve still don’t know that much about what’s actually in the city. But well, can’t do everything at the same time. I’ll try to keep you guys posted on how things are going. Here’s a picture of a temporary road sing. Thought it was funny :)

Nothing and everything August 27, 2009

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What a strange day! I woke up late, had breakfast and all the things that come with it. Around 4-ish I went to a cheap hair dresser, I just wanted to cut the ends so I thought “how bad can it be?” I’ve been there a few weeks ago and it was good, nothing special but cheap and quick and my ends were cut. Today, I said exactly the same:HPIM5980a

I: I just want to cut the ends, not my fringe ’cause I want to get rid of it and there’s not any need to cut my layers either
Hair dresser: So you want to even it all out?
I: Yes
Hair dresser: OK, so I won’t cut the layers or the fringe and will only even it out
I: Great

And the woman started cutting. I’m not entirely sure what when wrong, but she cut off 6 cm (roughly 2 inches)! So now I have an ugly in-between hair style. It’s not long, it’s not short. I had the same length when I was 13, I hated it then – and I sure don’t like it now! It’s the kind of hair cut that says I’m-so-scared-of-life-that-I-even-go-for-a-safe-hair-cut-kind-of-look. Dammit! Oh well, it will grow out again… While I’m at it I just want to point out that I’m sure it can look great on others, but I just don’t feel comfy in it. I’d rather go for it properly and cut it even shorter.. maybe next time.

After that I went into central Stockholm to meet up with J. It was really nice, I haven’t seen her in a long time and it was nice to get to catch up properly before I leave. We went to have a ‘fika’. I had a brie & salami sandwich and she had a salad. Yummy! I love brie & salami sandwiches and it’s something I always miss when I’m in UK. But imagine my surprise when I had eaten half and all realised that I was sharing it with a worm! Yes! A WORM! Sooo gross! I found it between two salad leaves. I’m so happy I didn’t eat it. I went to complain and although the staff apologised, they didn’t seem too surprised.

After that we went into a big apartment store and saw Carola! The average person might not know who Carola is, but I’m sure there is not ONE single Swede who doesn’t know who she is. She might be a bit crazy, but she’s a STAR! She had her major breakthrough in 1983 when she won the Swedish part of Eurovision song contest. Since then, she’s been in it 4 times, and she won the whole shebang in 1992. So seeing her was quite cool! We were giggling like little girls. After this J wanted to show me a perfume she really liked. It’s called Warm Cotton by Clean and I LOOOOVE IT! I had been smelling it all through our ‘fika’ and I though she used some really nice laundry powder but it turns out it was a perfume! Great for just everyday use. Who doesn’t want to smell clean? The producers describe it like this:

So pure, so fresh, it captures the feeling of a fluffy, warm towel just pulled from the dryer or slipping into your favourite T-shirt line-dried in the summer sun. CLEAN Warm Cotton wraps you in notes of citrus, lilac and jasmine over a subtle but oh-so-sexy blend of amber and musk. A fresh, comforting, just-laundered scent.

I want it! Badly! A must have! It’s not that often that I fall so madly in love with a smell so maybe… yeah.. I need it! I hope J doesn’t mind IF I somehow get it one day…? Note to self: Get a job – NOW!

That’s quite a long post for today. Like an episode of Seinfeld, what was it about? N o t h i n g…. I’m gonna finish this post about nothing with Carola’s winning performance from 1983. You’ve gotta love it! :)

Cityboy August 6, 2009

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Nobody could accuse me of rushing around all day. I woke up around 10-ish today. I could hear my mum doing something in the kitchen. Interesting. I went up to have a look. She was making blueberry muffins. Yummy. Completely worth the effort of getting out of bed. I had breakfast and then we went down to the ocean. I had a quick swim. It was terribly cold, but still somewhat nice. Check out the view I had from my rock. It was perfectly shaped like a chair, so I had a really comfy seat. :)

HPIM5870This was my view today :)

I finished reading the book ‘Cityboy – Beer and loathing in the square mile’. It was OK. It clearly wasn’t targeted towards me. It’s written by Geraint Anderson who used to work in London as a stock exchange analyst (can’t remember the proper term, but I hope you understand what I mean). He finally went into some nervous meltdown, quit and wrote a book about the system that rules the market. It was quite interesting, but it didn’t really change my idea I had about these people anyway. If anything, it confirmed my prejudice. Also, the book is written by a man, about men, for men. The language is quite harsh and there’s a lot of sexist. At some point he writes something like “I don’t have a sexist bone in my body, or maybe just one”, which clearly shows that what he might not be completely aware of his own sexism. Of course, the point of the book is to describe the harsh macho jargon that HHHH the whole business, but still. There were numerous times when I didn’t feel completely at ease. Either way, I would recommend the book. But maybe mainly to men. Or perhaps to a friend of mine who’s boyfriend works in a similar environment, haha. Apart from that I don’t really know what to say about the book. I can’t say that I can give it a fair review as I’m clearly not the target audience. Of course, I have the right to my opinion, but I remember how annoyed I would be when some rock-fan would give the Backstreet Boys a bad review when I was in my teens. I think the scenario is a bit similar here. But to conclude, the book was OK. I’ve read better, but I’ve also read much, much worse.

I’m off to have dinner now… Cheerios!

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