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My day off November 20, 2009

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Good evening!

I’ve been off work today, which always is a blessing. I spent my day without doing much really. I stayed in bed until noon (aah),  I was reading and drifting in and out of sleep… got to love that! At the moment I’m reading a book called Girls of Riyadh. It’s a very nice and girl book, like some kind of arabic version of Gossip girl, but a book. Basically, it a girl who sends out an email every friday, revealing the secrets going on with four upper-class Saudi girls. How they try to look for love and enjoy life, at the same time as conforming to the traditions of their country. I wouldn’t say it’s interesting, eye-opening or even controversial. It’s just a girly book in a slightly different setting. And the setting creates certain complications… oh well. That’s not what I sat down t write about.

In the afternoon I went into town to run a few errands before meeting with the BF around 6-ish. It’s late night shopping on Thursdays, so we spent a really nice evening out. We even went to an Italian restaurant for some dinner. And after dinner we realised that Debenhams had some kind of even so they were open until midnight, so we went in there and shopped a bit as well. They had lots of great offers. Amongst them we found a pair of pillows for £8. I hope they’re gonna be nice because the pillows we have at the moment aren’t really the greatest – and sleeping well makes such a difference to the satisfaction of life! At least it does to me…

..oh God, this post is boring!

I used the bake machine!! I’ve told you that my parents got me a bread machine as a graduation gift? No? Yes? Anyway, they did! First I used it a couple of evenings ago with a simple bread mix, I figured that I’d start of with something simple… and it was! Oh am I happy or what?! I’ve hated the English bread for some 3 years now, and FINALLY!! I have an option to toast! My parents always tried to make sure I had breakfast while growing up, so having breakfast is pretty essential to me. But the longer I’ve stayed in this country, the more often have I skipped breakfast. I hate toast! It’s not bread! Why can’t they make bread that doesn’t have to be toasted? Surely, toast can be nice once in a while, but every day? Thank god for the bread maker!

So yesterday night I decided to be a bit more bold in my bread making, so I mixed my own ingredients and set the timer so I would get the bread when I woke up. I wasn’t entirely sure of how to mix the ingredients, but I figured I’d just have to try my way.

Woke up this morning around 9-ish from a beeping bread-machine. Stumbled out in the kitchen to turn it off. I vaguely remember taking the bread out of the machine and onto a tray. And then went back to bed. I thought the bread had turned out really bad, because it was only half the size as the last one. But I realised (a couple of hours later when I had woken up) that I only had half of the ingredients, and the bread was actually really nice. It’s a bit heavy, but OK. I’m happy. The bread maker can also make just dough, jam or cakes so I’m sure it’s gonna bring me lots of happiness in the future. All I need now is lots of seeds and flour :)

I’ve been promising pictures for quite some time now, so here’s a selection from the last couple of weeks…

Bread no. 1

Bread no. 2

“Assemblying” the mirror ;)

Graduating :)

I shall leave you and love you now :)

Good night

Bits and bobs November 12, 2009

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I haven’t updated my blog in aaaages! Why? Mainly because there’s not much to say. Or actually, there are a couple of things here and there I could mention.

  1. I’ve got myself a desk! I bought it off ebay as a pick-up item, but the seller agreed to deliver it to me (he lives in Oxford). So for just £8 I got myself a really nice desk delivered to my door… cheaper than a pizza delivery! :)
  2. I went to the library yesterday. Borrowed Notes From The Underground by Fyodor Dostojevsky (I need to cultivate myself a bit, widen my horizons and challenge my mind) and another book called Girls of Riyadh which I don’t know much about. I think it’s about a couple of girls attending university in Saudi Arabia and their struggle to juggle traditional demands and their willingness to experience life… or something like that… Not sure. But I really look forward to getting into reading again. It’s something I’ve missed whilst at uni and something I’ve been craving for since arriving in Oxford, but simply haven’t had the time to. But now when we’ve started to settle in I hope to get some time over for rest and personal growth… haha… how pretentious does that sound!
  3. The BF ordered a desk from argos which we got delivered yesterday and I assembled. Lots of fun!
  4. I forgot to write a book review of the latest book I finished: Why is sex fun? The evolution of human sexuality, by Jared Diamond. It is actually a really, really interesting book. My cousin gave it to me yeeaars ago and I always found it a weird book to give to a cousin who is 12 years younger than you, but I tried to read it. I could see topics that were really interesting, but I think the book was too dry and academic for me back then. However, after having done 3 years at an English university I decided to give it another go. And I just couldn’t put it down! It was soooo interesting. During my last semester at uni I took a unit called the Psychology of Intimate Relationships. Basically, the unit looked at how the evolution has shaped the development of human intimate relationships. The basic assumption is that because the human child is so vulnerable at birth it has been essential for humans to be in couples to be able to raise their children. Now of course this might not be true anymore, but today’s society does not affect our genetic basis that evolved thousands of years ago. Anyhow, because being two makes such a difference to our offspring’s chance of survival, it has been argued that humans have developed several mechanisms that help us connect with another human being, and thus helps us maintain relationships. Some of these mechanisms are called attraction, attachment, commitment, jealousy and of course, love.
    So what does this have to do with this book by Jared Diamond? Well basically the unit looked at the psychological consequences of our children’s vulnerability. This book looked at almost the same thing, but from a physiological perspective. How come our sexuality has evolved into something so very different from other animals? How come women reach menopause when other female animals don’t? And why on earth does men have nipples? It is really difficult, and complicated to explain, but whilst reading the whole book I had the feeling that I had studied all of these topics at uni, while is reality I hadn’t. But I realised at the end of the book that it was because both the book and the topic did in fact look at something very similar, but one from a psychological perspective and the other from a physiological. I really, really enjoyed reading the book and can recommend it to anyone who wants to understand human behaviour and relationships more.
  5. We’re waiting for a TV. My BF ordered one, it was supposed to be delivered today, but it wasn’t. Great disappointment. Oh well. Perhaps tomorrow.

Clearly, there were a couple of things I could post! :) The bed is calling for me!

xoxox

Skynda att älska August 8, 2009

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Todays post will mainly be in Swedish. Why? Because it will mainly include a book review of a book I finished reading about 15 minutes ago. The book is in Swedish, and I doubt it will ever be translated into English, so what’s the point? Apart from reading I’ve spent the day tanning (and reading at the same time), and I must say that I’m getting a nice tan. I’m surprised, I usually don’t get very tanned. At least not while staying in Sweden. Oh well, time to swap language.

Så, jag har läst ut en (till) bok. Den andra den här veckan. Min bror rekommenderade min Alex Schulmans bok Skynda att älska. Himla bra faktiskt. Min mamma läste den före mig (på en dag!) så jag antog att den skulle vara lättläst i alla fall. Mycket riktigt. Den handlar om hans pappa, eller kanske mer om hans minnen av sin pappa. Jag tror att han har skrivit den i ett försök att bearbeta sorgen efter hans pappas död, och jag vet inte hur själva bearbetandet har gått, men boken var himla bra. Ett väldigt vackert och kärleksfullt porträtt av sin pappa. Det enda jag funderade över var att man får inte veta så mycket om någon annan än pappan och Alex själv. Hans två bröder nämns ofta, och hans mamma likaså. Men han nämner även att han har 4 halvsyskon vid ett par tillfällen. Ändå får man aldrig något grepp om huruvida Alex någonsin träffar dom. I och för sig så är det väl för att boken handlar just om pappa-son förhållanden och inte om allt annat runt omkring. Nåväl, jag tänker inte bli långdragen. Bra bok, värd att läsas! Kan rekommenderas starkt! Dessutom gillar jag titeln ‘Skynda att älska’. Himlans vackert.

Nu vet jag inte vad jag ska göra av min dag… Kanske se på TV och käka godis? Man blir aldrig för gammal för det :)

Cityboy August 6, 2009

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Nobody could accuse me of rushing around all day. I woke up around 10-ish today. I could hear my mum doing something in the kitchen. Interesting. I went up to have a look. She was making blueberry muffins. Yummy. Completely worth the effort of getting out of bed. I had breakfast and then we went down to the ocean. I had a quick swim. It was terribly cold, but still somewhat nice. Check out the view I had from my rock. It was perfectly shaped like a chair, so I had a really comfy seat. :)

HPIM5870This was my view today :)

I finished reading the book ‘Cityboy – Beer and loathing in the square mile’. It was OK. It clearly wasn’t targeted towards me. It’s written by Geraint Anderson who used to work in London as a stock exchange analyst (can’t remember the proper term, but I hope you understand what I mean). He finally went into some nervous meltdown, quit and wrote a book about the system that rules the market. It was quite interesting, but it didn’t really change my idea I had about these people anyway. If anything, it confirmed my prejudice. Also, the book is written by a man, about men, for men. The language is quite harsh and there’s a lot of sexist. At some point he writes something like “I don’t have a sexist bone in my body, or maybe just one”, which clearly shows that what he might not be completely aware of his own sexism. Of course, the point of the book is to describe the harsh macho jargon that HHHH the whole business, but still. There were numerous times when I didn’t feel completely at ease. Either way, I would recommend the book. But maybe mainly to men. Or perhaps to a friend of mine who’s boyfriend works in a similar environment, haha. Apart from that I don’t really know what to say about the book. I can’t say that I can give it a fair review as I’m clearly not the target audience. Of course, I have the right to my opinion, but I remember how annoyed I would be when some rock-fan would give the Backstreet Boys a bad review when I was in my teens. I think the scenario is a bit similar here. But to conclude, the book was OK. I’ve read better, but I’ve also read much, much worse.

I’m off to have dinner now… Cheerios!

The Kite Runner July 18, 2009

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I’ve just finished reading the book The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini. It’s about two boys, Amir and Hassan. They are best friends, yet the grow up under very different conditions. Amir’s father is a rich business man and Hassan’s father is their servant. Due to some events Amir lets Hassan down and eventually he and his father leaves Afghanistan for a better life in USA. However, the idea that time always catches up with you is significant throughout the book and finally Amir has to return to Afghanistan and make peace with his past. Really good book, some unexpected turns and a few expected ones. All in all, really good but I prefer his second book ‘A thousand splendid suns’.

Now, the BF and I are off into Stockholm’s archipelago.. speak to you later :)

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